(HOD OF THE ENGLISH DEPARTMENT OF MUMBAI UNIVERSITY)
(AN INSUFFERABLE BULLY)
I am not the one to
write these things, but today, the ill-fated day when I had the displeasure of
meeting Dr. Shoba Venkatesh Ghosh, I
am being forced to write this letter. I will keep it simple worded and *try* to
be polite.
First,
let me start off with some background. It has been raining incessantly for the
past few days, and the past two weeks have been really hard on my health, but
thankfully I am recovering. My results were declared about
week ago, and I am now a graduate. I majored in English Literature from Jai
Hind College, which is affiliated with the University. So far, so good.
However, my 5th Semester and 6th Semester mark-sheets are
held up at the University due to some technical issues and this has hindered my
ability to seek admissions in many different universities as the mark-sheets are
required for the admissions process. This only leaves MU open for me. My father
and I have been scrambling around since the day my results were declared for my mark-sheets, yet nothing seems to let up.
Now for the part you’ve
been waiting. My dad has been accompanying on the account of my health, as I am
heavily medicated and do have a history of passing out and MU’s campus is the
size of a small city. We reach the Dept. of English just after lunch, very
visibly drenched by the rains, tired (and just looking for a little ray of
sunshine) to submit the form well before the due date. However the problems of
the mark-sheets remain, and so the clerk takes us to see the HOD to discuss this
further. First off, we’re made to stand with the clerk even though there are
some seven chairs open there and just us in the room. Now quite frankly, I’m
not at my best, I’m dripping wet, I have no make-up on, you can still see the
marks of the needles that administered the IV drugs at the hospital, my hair is
in a messy bun and for some reason I have pink floaters on, so yeah, go right
ahead and judge me. This woman just takes one look at me and scowls at me. As
my dad is explaining the issue to her, she immediately cuts him off, looks at me and sternly says,
“this isn’t my problem, you have to go there and sort it out.” There where?
A different office? Timbuktu? Heaven? Hell? I’m guessing Hell, because this
woman’s office sure seems like Pandemonium right about now. So, as expected I
ask her blankly “where?” “DO NOT TALK TO ME LIKE THAT. YOU ARE AN INSOLENT
GIRL. *looks at my dad* ASK YOUR INSOLENT DAUGHTER NOT TO TALK IN SUCH A
MANNER.” Right, I am just flabbergasted at this. Just a simple “where?” has got
this woman all riled up. Still, my dad immediately apologizes to her, even
though he doesn’t need to, and she is still going on at him.
Me: “I’m sorry ma’am,
but I have been running around from one place to another, just tell me where to
go and I will.”
Her : “THIS IS NOT MY
PROBLEM. *points at me* I DO NOT NEED TO DEAL WITH YOU”
By now, I have obviously
lost it. Call me a drama queen, call me hormonal, call me whatever, but I will
not, WILL NOT have anyone talk to me in such a manner, and I will retort. I am
not some common street-walker that she is asking to get lost nor am I a beggar
that she needs to shoo away.
Me: “Okay ma’am, first
of YOU WILL TALK ME CALMLY AND WITH A MODICUM OF RESPECT”
Her: “HOW DARE YOU TALK
TO ME LIKE THAT? YOU ARE BEING SO INSOLENT. *she seems to love the word ‘insolent’
for some reason* GET OUT OF THE ROOM. PLEASE STAND OUTSIDE WHILE I DEAL WITH
YOUR FATHER*
Me: “NOW JUST BECAUSE I
AM YOUNG AND A STUDENT DOESN’T NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TALK TO ME IN THIS
MANNER. YOU WILL SHOW SOME DEGREE OF RESPECT WHILE YOU ARE TALKING TO ME.”
My father and the clerk standing next to him
are begging me to leave the room, and in the best interests of all of us, I
pick up my bag and umbrella and leave the room. I did not slam any doors, I did
not mock anyone. I simple left had sip of water while I was waiting. Within a
few minutes, my father and the clerk come out, they speak in inaudible voices,
and the clerk walks to his desk and my father walks towards me. My father tells
me that he apologized on my behalf, and she has accepted it, and that we can
submit the form with a letter from the registrar and my college stating the
issues with the mark-sheets. Here I think, what the hell, let me go in and say I’m
sorry, even though I do not think I did any wrong, but in the end she is a government
bureaucrat and we all know how they
are.